In the beginning of May, I wrote about getting both of my boys classified in school. I was kicking myself for waiting so long, thinking how much time I must have wasted where they could have been getting the help that they needed. Dave and I weren’t sure if we had made the right decision, but the teachers at their schools made it easy for us and we are grateful. Both boys have now finished their first semester at school, DJ in grade 11 and Drew in grade 6. High School and Middle School – rough years in general.
Drew, my son who enjoyed school, but loathed academics made the honor roll! FIVE A’s and two B’s. We haven’t received the actual report card, but with the technology available to us, we are able to go on line and check his grades whenever we want. I am not a parent who checks on them daily. I go on once every week or two, to see if the boys are doing their homework and getting assignments completed on time. Drew is so proud of himself. He cannot wait to get the report card in the mail and show it to his fifth grade teachers. He told me how proud they are going to be of him. Seeing him this excited about his grades and school is something that Dave and I have never seen him exhibit before. He comes in and does his homework right after school. I would not say that there is no mumbling and grumbling about it, just so much less. I also have to credit his 6th grade teachers at the middle school. Whatever they are doing to keep him motivated, is working!
As for DJ, he didn’t make honor roll, but he has also had the best report card we have seen from him in years! 4 A’s 2 B’s and a C. He doesn’t talk much about school, he never has. We try to get information out of him but rarely get more than a word or two in response. His favorite class though is a television production class. He likes it so much, he’s going to school tonight, (something he’d have never done a year ago,) to help film a program going on at the school this evening.
We have never pushed for our boys to bring home straight A’s. That would be unrealistic. What we do tell them is to do their best and if they are giving it all of their effort, that is what is most important. I am not sure what it is that is motivating the boys, the teachers, getting them classified, or something else, but Dave and I are proud of them.