This afternoon I attended a monthly meeting for the education association I belong to. I happened to be sitting with three teachers from another elementary school in our district. They were DJ’s 1st, 2nd, 3rd and 5th grade teachers. (He was lucky enough to have one of them twice.)
All of them had seen on Facebook that he had been accepted into college and were so happy for him. One of them told me it made her feel old. I said, “tell me about it!!!”
I began to think about all of the teachers he has had in his “school career.” I am fortunate that I have been able to work with many of them and get to know them beyond just their “teacher role” and I know that DJ has been very lucky to have had all of them. From Mrs. Lerner in Kindergarten to Mr. Camp at his high-school. Each one of them is responsible for shaping him into the person that he is today and I am grateful to all of them.
I want to go back to college!
Not as an adult, but as a teenager again!
After spending time with DJ this weekend, listening to all that is offered and the different opportunities there are, I am actually a bit envious of all that he has to look forward to. There are so many possibilities that weren’t available when I was in school. Don’t get me wrong, I had a great time in college, got a fantastic education and met some wonderful people there. I am still friends with many of them but I was so amazed seeing all that is out there for him!
Maybe, it is just because I am older and have a different perspective on life than I did when I was eighteen. I wonder what I would have done differently. I wonder what I would have kept the same. I am excited for him. With the internet and the technology today, there are so many more options out there than there were when I was in school. I wonder if my parent’s generation felt that way when we all went off to school. Technology has changed the world so much. The opportunities are endless.
I know he is thrilled about making his choice and Dave and I are so proud of him and the decision he has made. He is beyond excited and we are so excited for him.
It is official. After spending the day at Lasell College today, DJ decided that there is no doubt in his mind that this is where he wants to go to school. We were able to sit in on a seminar with several of the Communications Department faculty members and I could feel his excitement growing. At lunch, we were seated by course of study and he sat next to the head of the communications department. There were two other professors there too and although DJ knew already that this was it…they sold me on it too!
A funny thing happened after DJ signed his paperwork. Although neither of us told each other until after DJ made his decision, after he signed and we were walking out of the athletic center, he mentioned that the head of the department reminded him of grandma, (my mom.) She looked nothing like her but the funny thing about it is that I had the exact same impression while she was speaking to our group. Neither of us are sure what the connection was but it was so odd that we both felt it. The biggest “give away” for the mom/grandma connection was when she took her napkin from the table while we were eating, and hooked it into her shirt like a bib. This was my mom’s signature. She ALWAYS wore her “bib” – otherwise she wore her food.
Maybe it was her sign letting DJ know he is making the right choice. DJ still hasn’t heard from a few schools and I told him if he wanted to wait to make his decision he could, but knowing that he has his scholarship and that money is much less of an issue because of it, he knew this was the right choice.
I haven’t seen him so happy! He said he feels like a load is lifted off his shoulders and I am so happy for him!
In less than two hours DJ and I will heading to Boston. Dave and Drew aren’t joining us so it will be just the two of us. Four hours in a car with him alone. Wonder what we will talk about? He’s never been a sullen teenager and has always been a pretty good conversationalist.
We are off to Lasell College, one of his top choices. He has already been accepted there. On Saturday, they are offering an “Accepted Students Day,” where students can see the school in action. Today we plan to spend the day in Boston once we arrive. We live only about five hours from there, yet somehow, I don’t think I have ever been there, (perhaps when I was really little, but I don’t remember it.)
I am looking forward to it. I know DJ is too. The weather is pretty crummy here in New Jersey today and from what I can see on the weather reports, it looks to be that way all throughout the North East. We might even have snow. It might not be the ideal day to walk around Boston but if he makes the decision to go there, we will have plenty of more options to get there in the future!
I finally saw it! A sign of Spring! These flowers have bloomed in a neighbor’s yard and it finally gave me that glimpse I have been hoping for! Never-mind that less than two feet away from them, is a mound of snow that hasn’t melted yet, or that more snow is predicted for Saturday!
Flowers!!! That’s what I needed to see.
All day long today I thought it was Thursday. I am a day ahead of myself. Do you ever have those days? There isn’t only one day until the weekend, but two. Some weeks seem to be much longer than others!!
I guess it is sort of like a Thursday for me. Friday, DJ and I are headed to Boston for Lasell Day so I took a day off from work. There is a full day of activities planned at the college on Saturday and since I have never been to Boston before, we decided to spend Friday touring the city.
So, one more work day this week and now, as I write this, it actually almost is Thursday!!